Always Back To Relationship


I recently wrote a blog about noticing people around us. It was largely based on an experience I had, but at the heart of it, it is about right and restored relationship. About building and being open to relationships with people because that really what God created us for.

Then today I read another author’s blog along the same lines. I wanted to share it with you. It’s not a very lengthy read, but definitely worth it. Please check it out. Then if you like the author, I would highly encourage you to look into the work he co-authored, The Samaritan Project.


The House Studio


One of the publishers I have been really impressed with is The House Studio. One of their most recent releases is called The Samaritan Project. I would encourage you to check it out!


Who’s There?


Last week I was at the annual meetings for our district. It was a pretty good time- a lot of sitting and listening, but good reports and conversations. We had a rather substantial break for dinner and I decided it would be a good time to go to Target to get a few things for home. I especially wanted to make it to Target because I miss living near Target and I just think it’s fun to shop there. Anyway- I digress.

After getting what I needed, I decided to stop at a particular restaurant for dinner. It was the dinner break after all. So I walked in, ask for a table for 1, and was seated. As I was sitting down at the table, I had a gut feeling. I was going to be forgotten about. This actually happens quite often. I can’t quite discover why, but there are two basic things that I think happen in this scenario.

One, is that people feel sorry for you when you are by yourself. I think sometimes they mean well, but other times, the look I get is
“That’s pathetic.” They don’t know what to do with you because they feel sorry for you and it makes them feel awkward. The other thing at work, is that they actually don’t see you. It’s weird. But I have often been by myself places and it really seems like people just don’t see me. It’s wild.

I’m not entirely sure what was at work that day at the restaurant, but sure enough, I was forgotten about. After about 10 minutes of sitting without any acknowledgement from any of the wait staff, I decided to do something I don’t normally do. I sat up very straight and began to make eye contact with anyone I could. Normally, I would have just played on my phone, look through the menu again, something like that to try and decrease the obviousness that I was not being noticed. People at the tables around me began to notice- giving me funny looks and I think realizing how long I had sat there without any acknowledgement from the staff.

But I could not catch the attention of any of the staff. A couple of them looked towards me but didn’t really see me… Finally one of them did. Well, I had actually made eye contact with him about 3 times at that point, but he finally came over and asked if I had been helped yet. “No, not yet,” I said. “Oh, I’m sorry! Let me get you taken care of. What can I get you to drink today?” So I told him what I would like and then went ahead and ordered (I had only had 18 minutes to decide….). He took care of things at that point.

A few minutes after he took my order, the manager (who had actually been the one to seat me) came over and apologized that I had been forgotten. She then said, “I am buying your dinner tonight. I am very sorry. We don’t normally mess up this bad.” Well, that was not hard to agree with, so I said, “Well, thank you very much. I was a little surprised at waiting so long– so thank you.” From there I enjoyed a very nice, free dinner.

Now here is my real point- I’ve been thinking about this whole experience. I’ve wondered, how many times are there people right around me whom I do not see or whom I forget about? I’ve wondered this especially in regards to church gatherings. I have a pastor friend who told me a story the other day about watching a lady in their congregation (whose husband past away a few months ago) come into Sunday worship and proceed to sit by herself the entire time. No one approached her. She sat during service, weeping- she’s grieving- but no one seemed to care… no one really seemed to “see” her.

I can kind of understand being overlooked in a restaurant or something like. But I am really wondering if we pay attention when it comes to our church family. Believe me, it’s not fun to be overlooked. It’s rather degrading really. All of this is challenging me to really pay attention to those around me.

It’s also reminded me a little bit of James 2. It’s specifically identifying how the rich and pour were being treated, but the principle is what I’m getting. “If you really fulfill the royal law according to the Scripture, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself,” you are doing well. But if you show partiality, you are committing sin and are convicted by the law as transgressors.” (James 2:8-9) Do I love the people around me enough to see them and then actually pay attention to them? Do I see and value those who are around me? What about you?


Return


The last couple of days have been really nice outside so I decided that I should walk to work. It just makes sense. I live close and it’s really nice and there is no real need to drive. So I walked to work. I think the best part is that it gives me a bit of time to just think.

Today I was thinking about a conversation I had last night with a friend. We were talking about Philippians 3:20-21. There’s this phrase in there that talks about eagerly waiting for Jesus’ return… It stood out to me and made me wonder, “Do I really live expecting Jesus to return?” It really has me thinking….

At the beginning of the church, everyone really believed that Jesus would return to earth very soon. We have the account in Acts 1 of the angels telling everyone that Jesus would come back the same way He left. And they really believed this: that Jesus was physically alive after his death, that he actually went to heaven, and that he really would physically come back to earth. But here we are centuries later, and that hasn’t happened.

But I don’t think this is an excuse to not expect him.

I suspect that if I lived in expectation of Jesus returning to earth, some of my choices and thinking would change. Instead of just expecting one day to die and be taken to heaven, if I live expecting that Jesus will return at any time, I think things would be a little bit different….

That’s what I was thinking over on the way to work this morning.


Exodus


We started a new series at our church in the book of Exodus. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be looking at the stories in this book and listening to what God is teaching through them. It should be exciting!

In preparation last week, I was reading the first couple of chapters of Exodus and a couple of thing stood out to me. These two things have never really impacted me before. But this time around, they were key to my understanding of what God was doing in His people at that time… and ultimately, it has shown me what I think God does now.

First, we need to understand a bit of the background leading into Exodus. Way back, God called out a guy named Abraham and made a promise to him. Genesis 12:1-3 says, “Now the Lord said to Abram, “Go from your country and your kindred and your father’s house to the land that I will show you. And I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you and make your name great, so that you will be a blessing. I will bless those who bless you, and him who dishonors you I will curse, and in you all the families of the earth shall be blessed.”” Over the next few chapters, God begins explaining and defining His promise. In chapter 13 He tells Abraham, ” I will make your offspring as the dust of the earth, so that if one can count the dust of the earth, your offspring also can be counted.” Later God says to him, ““Look toward heaven, and number the stars, if you are able to number them.” Then he said to him, “So shall your offspring be.”” God promises that Abraham’s family will have a country of their own. A few chapters later, God really solidifies His covenant (promise) with Abraham and says that it’s not just about Him and Abraham, but also about Abraham’s descendants (the Israelites).  God will be with them, give them their own land, and make the entire family a blessing to all nations.

Well years go by, and a few children are born, but they are still a relatively small family. Abraham dies and eventually his grandchildren all end up living in Egypt. This is where Exodus opens. Living in Egypt was not really the ultimate goal for the family of Israel. Part of God’s promise was that they would have their own land and it wasn’t Egypt. But there they were- all waiting around for something to happen. And something did happen. But not exactly a good something.

Egypt did not like this group just living there and not really being part of their kingdom. So they enslaved the people. They did not want the people to grown in number because they may soon outnumber the Egyptians and take over. So they worked them into forced labor.

I have always thought about this opening chapter of Exodus as just setting the stage to answer the question: How is God going to get the people out of here so he can fulfill His promise? But this last time around, I saw something different.

Exodus 1:7 says, “But the people of Israel were fruitful and increased greatly; they multiplied and grew exceedingly strong, so that the land was filled with them.” Then again, in 1:12, “But the more they were oppressed, the more they multiplied and the more they spread abroad. And the Egyptians were in dread of the people of Israel.”

This is when it hit me: It seems like nothing good is happening… that God is not present. Yet right here is God fulfilling the first part of His promise. God is actively bringing about His promise. The people are becoming numerous. They are growing! When it seems like God is not doing anything special, God is actually fulfilling His promise. (We learn a bit later that the people really didn’t think God was active. That God had forgotten about them.) But here in the everyday, in the years of waiting, God is active. God is being faithful to God’s promise.

Things where not exactly rainbows and butterflies, but God was working. Even in their great oppression, God was blessing. The more they were oppressed, the more God blessed… The greater the oppression became, the more we see God being faithful to God’s promise- the people grew in number. This wasn’t the absolute fulfillment of God’s promise, but God was active and God was being faithful.

It got me to thinking. There are times when we don’t believe God is doing anything. Or our situation in life feels oppressive and overwhelming. But what I learned from the beginning of Exodus, is that these may be the times that God is actively working to fulfill His promise. God is being faithful. God is blessing! I just may have need to change how I look at the situation. It doesn’t mean I like the situation or the circumstances of life, but I should remember and hold to God’s promise. Because God is working. He has not forgotten. He is faithful and blessing….


Grammarist


A fantastic site that we all need to use. Go now and learn!

Grammarist


Song of the Month


It’s Monday after Easter! Woo hoo! In honor of Easter and all that it represents, I thought this song would be a good choice for the Song of the Month. Enjoy….

Newsboys: Savior of the World


God so loved, that He gave His son
To lay down His life for the sake of us
He bore the weight of our sin and shame
With a cry He said, It is finished

Christ the Lord overcame the darkness
He’s alive: death has been defeated

For He made us a way
by which we have been saved
He’s the Savior of the world
So we lift up a shout for his fame and renown
Praise the Lord
Praise the Lord
Jesus, Savior of the world

We must spread the word of His soon return
To reclaim the world for His glory
Let the church now sing of this coming King
Crowned with majesty, our Redeemer

And He reigns, Ruler of the heavens
And His name is Jesus, the Messiah

For He made us a way
by which we have been saved
He’s the Savior of the world
So we lift up a shout for his fame and renown
Praise the Lord
Praise the Lord
Jesus, Savior of the world

Christ the Lord overcame the darkness
He’s alive: death has been defeated
And He reigns, ruler of the heavens
And His name is Jesus, the Messiah

For He made us a way
by which we have been saved
He’s the Savior of the world
So we lift up a shout for his fame and renown
Praise the Lord
Praise the Lord
Jesus, Savior of the world


Resurrection Sunday


Early on Sunday morning, while it was still dark, Mary Magdalene came to the tomb and found that the stone had been rolled away from the entrance. She ran and found Simon Peter and the other disciple, the one whom Jesus loved. She said, “They have taken the Lord’s body out of the tomb, and we don’t know where they have put him!”

Peter and the other disciple started out for the tomb. They were both running, but the other disciple outran Peter and reached the tomb first. He stooped and looked in and saw the linen wrappings lying there, but he didn’t go in. Then Simon Peter arrived and went inside. He also noticed the linen wrappings lying there, while the cloth that had covered Jesus’ head was folded up and lying apart from the other wrappings. Then the disciple who had reached the tomb first also went in, and he saw and believed— for until then they still hadn’t understood the Scriptures that said Jesus must rise from the dead. Then they went home.

Mary was standing outside the tomb crying, and as she wept, she stooped and looked in. She saw two white-robed angels, one sitting at the head and the other at the foot of the place where the body of Jesus had been lying. “Dear woman, why are you crying?” the angels asked her.

“Because they have taken away my Lord,” she replied, “and I don’t know where they have put him.”

She turned to leave and saw someone standing there. It was Jesus, but she didn’t recognize him. “Dear woman, why are you crying?” Jesus asked her. “Who are you looking for?”

She thought he was the gardener. “Sir,” she said, “if you have taken him away, tell me where you have put him, and I will go and get him.”

“Mary!” Jesus said.

She turned to him and cried out, “Rabboni!” (which is Hebrew for “Teacher”).

“Don’t cling to me,” Jesus said, “for I haven’t yet ascended to the Father. But go find my brothers and tell them, ‘I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.’”

Mary Magdalene found the disciples and told them, “I have seen the Lord!” Then she gave them his message.

That Sunday evening the disciples were meeting behind locked doors because they were afraid of the Jewish leaders. Suddenly, Jesus was standing there among them! “Peace be with you,” he said. As he spoke, he showed them the wounds in his hands and his side. They were filled with joy when they saw the Lord! Again he said, “Peace be with you. As the Father has sent me, so I am sending you.” Then he breathed on them and said, “Receive the Holy Spirit. If you forgive anyone’s sins, they are forgiven. If you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven.”

One of the twelve disciples, Thomas (nicknamed the Twin), was not with the others when Jesus came. They told him, “We have seen the Lord!”

But he replied, “I won’t believe it unless I see the nail wounds in his hands, put my fingers into them, and place my hand into the wound in his side.”

Eight days later the disciples were together again, and this time Thomas was with them. The doors were locked; but suddenly, as before, Jesus was standing among them. “Peace be with you,” he said. Then he said to Thomas, “Put your finger here, and look at my hands. Put your hand into the wound in my side. Don’t be faithless any longer. Believe!”

“My Lord and my God!” Thomas exclaimed.

Then Jesus told him, “You believe because you have seen me. Blessed are those who believe without seeing me.”

The disciples saw Jesus do many other miraculous signs in addition to the ones recorded in this book. But these are written so that you may continue to believe that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that by believing in him you will have life by the power of his name.

(John 20)


Good Friday- Finale


Excerpts from John 18 & 19

It was the day of preparation, and the Jewish leaders didn’t want the bodies hanging there the next day, which was the Sabbath (and a very special Sabbath, because it was the Passover). So they asked Pilate to hasten their deaths by ordering that their legs be broken. Then their bodies could be taken down. So the soldiers came and broke the legs of the two men crucified with Jesus. But when they came to Jesus, they saw that he was already dead, so they didn’t break his legs. One of the soldiers, however, pierced his side with a spear, and immediately blood and water flowed out. (This report is from an eyewitness giving an accurate account. He speaks the truth so that you also can believe.) These things happened in fulfillment of the Scriptures that say, “Not one of his bones will be broken,” and “They will look on the one they pierced.”

Afterward Joseph of Arimathea, who had been a secret disciple of Jesus (because he feared the Jewish leaders), asked Pilate for permission to take down Jesus’ body. When Pilate gave permission, Joseph came and took the body away. With him came Nicodemus, the man who had come to Jesus at night. He brought about seventy-five pounds of perfumed ointment made from myrrh and aloes. Following Jewish burial custom, they wrapped Jesus’ body with the spices in long sheets of linen cloth. The place of crucifixion was near a garden, where there was a new tomb, never used before. And so, because it was the day of preparation for the Jewish Passover and since the tomb was close at hand, they laid Jesus there.


Good Friday- Part 3


Excerpts from John 18 & 19

It was now about noon on the day of preparation for the Passover. And Pilate said to the people, “Look, here is your king!”

“Away with him,” they yelled. “Away with him! Crucify him!”

“What? Crucify your king?” Pilate asked.

“We have no king but Caesar,” the leading priests shouted back.

Then Pilate turned Jesus over to them to be crucified.

It was now about noon on the day of preparation for the Passover. And Pilate said to the people, “Look, here is your king!”

“Away with him,” they yelled. “Away with him! Crucify him!”

“What? Crucify your king?” Pilate asked.

“We have no king but Caesar,” the leading priests shouted back.

Then Pilate turned Jesus over to them to be crucified.

So they took Jesus away. Carrying the cross by himself, he went to the place called Place of the Skull (in Hebrew, Golgotha). There they nailed him to the cross. Two others were crucified with him, one on either side, with Jesus between them. And Pilate posted a sign on the cross that read, “Jesus of Nazareth, the King of the Jews.” The place where Jesus was crucified was near the city, and the sign was written in Hebrew, Latin, and Greek, so that many people could read it.

Then the leading priests objected and said to Pilate, “Change it from ‘The King of the Jews’ to ‘He said, I am King of the Jews.’”

Pilate replied, “No, what I have written, I have written.”

When the soldiers had crucified Jesus, they divided his clothes among the four of them. They also took his robe, but it was seamless, woven in one piece from top to bottom. So they said, “Rather than tearing it apart, let’s throw dice for it.” This fulfilled the Scripture that says, “They divided my garments among themselves and threw dice for my clothing.” So that is what they did.

Standing near the cross were Jesus’ mother, and his mother’s sister, Mary (the wife of Clopas), and Mary Magdalene. When Jesus saw his mother standing there beside the disciple he loved, he said to her, “Dear woman, here is your son.” And he said to this disciple, “Here is your mother.” And from then on this disciple took her into his home.

Jesus knew that his mission was now finished, and to fulfill Scripture he said, “I am thirsty.” A jar of sour wine was sitting there, so they soaked a sponge in it, put it on a hyssop branch, and held it up to his lips. When Jesus had tasted it, he said, “It is finished!” Then he bowed his head and released his spirit.


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